The Art of YES

What a great word!
 How does it make you feel to say 'YES'? - Powerful, empowered, positive, lifted, happy.....so many ways the word 'YES' can make us feel.  Yet, how often do we say it with the feeling it deserves.
Try it.  Right now.  Stand up and say "YES" like you mean it.  Go ahead, do the fist pump and everything!  It is a great, freeing release of energy.  And you cannot help but smile when you say it.
Now consider this, how does the other person react when you say 'YES'?  Do you see a smile, a hint of happiness or a burst of energy?  It's true isn't it.  'YES' can make your space a better place for a while.

What is Your Approach?

The Door Is Waiting for You!

Really, it is!  What is your approach when a door presents itself?

In an earlier post I spoke about the window of opportunity.  Now the door is here and there are even chairs for those who are not ready to approach the door.

Think of Katie Perry's song "Firework" - she talks about the doors being closed so that you can open one that leads you to the perfect road. 

How do you approach the door?  With excitement, trepidation, curiosity or outright fear?  Do you have a million 'what if' questions about what is behind the door?  Or like in the movie Megamind, is the Exit door really an 'exciting' door?

What if you open the door and it leads you to your greatest success?

What if you open the door and it is a slow slide to your best adventure yet?

What if you open the door and it is a rollercoaster ride that is fun and rewarding?

You will never know until you open the door.  Examine your approach.  You never can tell what is waiting for you and your approach is the key to finding out.

Are You Fit?

Fitness comes in many forms.  Fit body.  Fit mind. Fit heart. Fit spirit.  Are you fit?  Fitness starts with challenges that are built upon goals to improve oneself. There are many ways to become fit.  Here are a few:

1. Meditate:  take 5 minutes each day to close your eyes, clear your mind and breathe in and out.  This will help reduce (or eliminate) stress, improve relaxation and build energy.
2. Get a coach: private coaching sessions are an awesome way to get fit in all facets of your life. A coach will keep you accountable to yourself, help you with roadblocks, create with you your path to success.
3. Join a fitness club:  there are so many out there so investigate and find one that suits your needs and your style.
4. Volunteer:  find an organization that means a lot to you and give back.

See - fitness....in all its shapes and forms can help you become the TRUE You!

The Ladder of Life

Climbing a ladder can be scary, especially if you are afraid of heights.  It takes time to tackle the things we are afraid of doing, whether physically challenges or mental challenges or sometimes both.
Here are a few tips on handling the ladders that life tends to hand us:

1. take it slowly by thinking about the worst thing that can happen if you climb the ladder or if you do not climb the ladder.
2. think about how you will feel when you have conquered the ladder - what does success look like?
3. take the ladder one rung (step) at a time - each step is it's own success

Always remember that you can do whatever you set your mind to do....what the mind believes, the mind can achieve - you just need to go with it!

Make a Happy Life

"Remember: very little is needed to make a happy life."

~Marcus Aurelius

It's true. If you sit and think for a minute, what truly makes you happy?

Do it...right now.  Stop and think.

List 5 things that make you happy.

Ok.

Now - which could you live without.

Picture it.

See, it's not a lot.  It really is the small things that truly make us happy.

And I mean, pure happiness, not the kind with strings attached or consequences or if's and but's or alternatives.  Real happiness.  The kind of smile that just spreads across your face and stays there.

Now, go and enjoy your day!

My Mom Said 'Cool'

This is my mom.

My mom & me.

She and my dad left with some friends last week for a road trip to New Orleans.  I love the fact that they are retired and can spend their time exploring the world around them. 

I am a middle child.  I always ask my mom to call me when they are on the road so that I know they are ok.  Let's face it...my Dad is in his 70's and she is getting close so I worry...and I like to hear her voice.

I was unable to get the phone when she called after one of the legs of her trip, but when I did, and I laughing as I write this....she ended the call with

"don't worry about us, everything's cool"

Well, that just tells me how awesome she is, how up-to-date and of course how much me and the kids a rubbing off on her. 

Even more importantly, they are going on a cruise from New Orleans.  Mom did a great job in the last 10 years overcoming her fear of boats.  Being a landed immigrant, she came to Canada on a ship from Europe and had a not-so-good experience - they certainly did not have the mechanics or medicinal supplies they do now to deal with seasickness.  She really is totally 'cool'!

Life Lessons from Roasting Potatoes

We had guests for dinner on Friday night.  We entertain almost every weekend.  Nothing strenuous, just good people getting together for some food and wine and talk - connection, interaction and sharing.

So I had put potatoes in the oven to roast about 45 minutes before my guests arrived (recipe below).  I got onto doing other things to prepare, even had time for a glass of wine with my husband before the other couple arrived.  It was quite leisurely, my son even helped to set the table.

At the time requested, my guests arrived.  We chatted at the island in the kitchen while snacking on a few appetizers and catching up on the work week.  My husband took his time making perfect steaks on the barbecue.....when they were ready, I freaked out because I had forgotten all about the roasting potatoes.

Not to worry - they were perfect.  Actually - the best roasted potatoes I have ever made.

This made me stop and think. Sometimes we fuss over things, work to make things (or people) into what (or who) we want them to be, when in all reality, all we need to do is let them be.  We can sometimes even forget about the problem or the project or our need to mold a person and really let time take it's course.  It is amazing what can develop without our constant interference.

Solstice Roasted Potatoes
Preheat oven to 375 degrees.
In a glass lasagna pan, coat the bottom with 4 tablespoons of olive oil. 
Peel and coarsely chop in as many potatoes as you would like.
Peel and chop 1 onion.
Sprinkle with sea salt, cracked pepper and garlic powder (not garlic salt).
Add small pats of butter on top of potatoes (about 4 - 6 across the pan).
Put into the oven to roast.....about 90 minutes works out really well (that is the amount of time I am pretty sure mine were in)
You can turn the potatoes at the 45 minute mark and add more butter if you wish.

Enjoy!