Life has it's challenges. Try the blended family. Getting to know adult children can be difficult and the emotions are always a little off kilter (?). Funny enough, here is a post I found - the quote is interesting.

"you change for two reasons; either you learn enough that you want to or you’ve been hurt enough that you have to~"

Hopefully the changes are always for the good. Sometimes enough time passes that we are only hurting ourselves by not accepting a change in our life. Especially a change that we have no control over. Sometimes the change is merely acceptance and removing anger. That can eliminate a lot of wasted energy.

I hope that everyone spends time learning instead of hurting.